This story is written by Allen Crabtree, a Red Cross disaster volunteer.

Many of the fifty people gathered in the Minot Municipal Auditorium had lost their home and all their possessions when the Souris River flooded in June in the worst disaster in the city’s history. Every one of them in the audience had a friend or neighbor who had suffered loss. Stress and anxiety are running high in this close-knit community, and Medcenter One and the American Red Cross sponsored a workshop with Dr. Mark Doerner, a Medcenter One psychologist and American Red Cross volunteer. He addressed the gathering with advice on how to cope with the disaster, and illustrated how disaster can cause stress in the group’s lives and offered coping strategies to deal with it.
“Stress in life is normal,” Doerner said. “But stress must be managed. It can be a problem when it disrupts a person’s ability to do daily life tasks over a period of a few weeks.”
Doerner reminded the group that the Minot flood is a marathon event, not a sprint. Just as the flood waters are going to be slow in receding so that people can get back to their homes and begin the long process of rebuilding, the stress and anxiety are going to be long-term as well. The communities of Minot and the surrounding area affected by the flood have shown incredible strength, but the American Red Cross is seeing signs of stress among flood evacuees. As people return home, exhaustion sets in and the shock of the damage can cause an entire new set of emotions, such as grief, desperation and depression.
Doerner advised that people need to be prepared to pay attention to their emotional reactions and to the reactions of friends and neighbors. Pulling together and asking for assistance are valuable coping tools. Another important coping strategy is taking care of your physical and emotional needs. He recommended the three “R’s” are good ways to cope with disaster stress. “Rest, Routine, and Relationships,” he said. “Take care of yourself and make time to rest, even though you have a huge amount of work ahead of you to clean out and rebuild.” He also said everyone should establish a routine, including time for a break.
“Instead of scrubbing and shoveling until you drop, once and awhile turn the bucket over and sit on it, lean on your shovel, and drink a bottle of water,” he said. “The relationships we form with others are equally important – talk about your feelings, and be open about mourning your losses. You are not alone, and talking with others – and listening to others – is valuable therapy.”
While Doerner said that stress in these circumstances is to be expected, he also recommended getting help when symptoms of stress persist at a high level for more than a month.
“We have no control over nature,” commented Janel Schmitz, Chief Executive of the American Red Cross. “But we can control what we do afterwards.” She added that each of us needs to take care of ourselves following a disaster, and that the Red cross has specialists who can help us deal with our stress and work through the mental trauma of a disaster. “The Red Cross has several mental health workers here to talk with you after the meeting,” she added. “We’re here to help you in this emotionally stressful time.”